Thank you for sharing your concern with sexualcounselling.com

Not being able to get orgasms in sex may not be a pleasant experience, but there is NO evidence to suggest that it interferes with becoming pregnant.

Since you are trying to conceive and have reasons to be concerned about it, it’s time you had an infertility work up. See your physician or have an appointment at and infertility hospital, so that they will examine you both to see what is coming in the way.

It could be his semen which may not have adequate number of spermatozoa with desirable properties; or one that is deficient in certain favorable substances or loaded with unwanted substances.

It could be your internal organs or their functioning;

Or it could also be something that pertains to both of you such as an incompatibility between your reproductive cells/fluids.

When taking a consultation, mention that you had a history of STD, because certain STDs may have adverse effects on the ability to conceive. Also quit smoking, as this is harmful to you as well to your baby to be born.