A lot of couples complain about unequal levels of sexual desire, so
you are not alone. Problem of sexual desire or desire discrepancy
cannot be evaluated or solved through mails because we have more questions
than answers; For ex., since how long do you experience this discrepancy?
Does she enjoy sex when she participates? How frequently or infrequently
she initiates sex? Which part of sexual activity (foreplay through
after play) she enjoys most? What was her past sex life like? What
about her sexual self esteem? What are her feelings about your physical
appearance, sex technique, communication skills, care and affection?
Is she no longer interested in sex? Has the sex life become stale?
suffering from a physical, medical or psychological condition? Has
she been taking any prescription drugs or recreation drugs? Is she
a smoker, or an alcoholic? Are there changes in her general health,
say, after pregnancy and child birth? Are there any hormone changes
in her body? What are the levels of stress and strain in her domestic
and/or occupational duties.
such questions need be answered.
therapist could help you identify the causes of your problem by asking
these and other questions. Many of these difficulties can be overcame
with only a few therapy sessions, so it is worth finding professional